When men are dating several women
A master manipulator figures out from the introduction that you’re either the type of woman who has guys knocking at her door, or the type who cracks the door and hopes someone walks by. There are women who know their value, but there remains a large percentage who by this paranoia that there are only a few quality men in this world that will ever cross her path and be interested.As soon as this type of female meets a man that has four out of her ten must-have’s, she shuts down shop and prays to the heavens that this guy sticks around.While “Go be with them other bitches” has become a girl power battle cry, it’s a hollow threat.Once a woman is infatuated with a man, she doesn’t really want him to go be with other bitches, her actions of submitting to his demands or trying to make it work contradict her, “you must not know about me” bravado.He could be the one, or he could be just another one.You can’t worry about the future, all you can do is live in the now, and the now mandates that he’s nobody special.It’s not your new friend that’s making your mood electric, it’s what he represents esteem wise.
Far too many exceptional ladies live by this idea that the right one is simply the next one who taps her on the shoulder.
Y’all can tweet this, Facebook that, and text your friend, “.” I assume that made her the type of girl that waits by her phone for that ONE boy to hit her up, panics when he doesn’t, and spends all her free time wondering what that ONE boy is doing.
Once that ONE boy becomes corny and turns her off, hits it and the kind of girl that will complain about the time wasted and lament, “It’s so hard finding a man.” No shit!
Read that again, and this time think about your own dating habits, are you trying to get the best or just what’s available? Just because you like him, and let’s be clear all you are doing in that first month is being in-like, doesn’t mean it’s a sign from god.
I swear on baby Yeezus that some of y’all want this “him” fantasy so bad that you skip the part where you actually get to know this man intimately.